Marriage: what difference or what a difference!!
The comeback blog!
Cant believe its been almost a year since I wrote anything.. but thats what the timeline says so it must be true.. Marriage definitely changes people.. If anyone disagrees, option A: Your not married yet... B. Your in denial.. C.Well if its neither then Bravo! Keep it up! Do let me know how you did it.. provided you still think so after reading this blog and you take up the above MCQ and still choose option C :)
Changes that are obvious:
1. You are suddenly VERY busy: In my case I suddenly seem to be super duper busy! I was working pre-marriage, I am working post-marriage. I had the same chores at home pre-marriage and post-marriage. But somehow I feel like the days have gotten shorter.. I mean whats with that??? Anyone else agrees with this??
2. Your master ability of keeping in continuous touch with your friends is lost: This is something I genuinely feel bad about and my husband keeps having to hear me cribbing about it.. His logical follow up statement is: So call them or meet up with them.. But I somehow seem to be in continuous touch with only one freind aka the husband! the others its always a missed call returned and messages replied.. Thank god for watsapp though! If it werent for that I would officially be out of touch! This can ofcourse even be detected in your facebook wall.. jus see the frequency of posts pre marriage and post and you ll know what i m talking about!
3. You actually act your age (well.. atleast sometimes): Agreed there have been a number of events where my tantrums may seem like my husbands committed a legal folly by marrying a Minor but from what I hear thats a part of any healthy marriage: or so I believe to make myself feel better. But I do have to applaud myself at how well I behaved in quite a few instances. Kavi sabaash sabaash :P
4. You genuinely care about the other person in your life: I am not talking about the ohh he s so cute he s so hot kind of care. I actually mean the mature affection and care (Is it me talking!!) but it is true. Marriage is very fascinating that way, its a silent promise that gives you confidence and help you become a better person with the support of your better half. Touch wood. Marriage does make you less selfish. Thats a sure thing.
If you have not agreed with any of the above and your option is still C. Then please read on:
5. You are definitely given more bhav in family functions and get togethers :P You have got to agree with this!!!
6. You definitely put on weight.. I hope everyone agrees with this.. I most definitely dont want to be the only one in this section.. sighhhhhh
7.You have the right to clearly tell what gift you want and when you want it :p
8.You do care about the prices going up!!
These are just a few pointers.. If someone still goes with option C I will consider it my duty to add on to this blog.. But If your still going for option C I would suggest you consider option B :)
But whatever be the pre-marriage and post-marriage parameters, one thing is for sure despite all the ups and downs you have to agree no matter if you are newly wed or not.. having that person to count on is a definite boost in any situation.. Happy married life people :) take care!! hoping to keep blogging now.. but alas my track record does not support my promises to myself..
Cant believe its been almost a year since I wrote anything.. but thats what the timeline says so it must be true.. Marriage definitely changes people.. If anyone disagrees, option A: Your not married yet... B. Your in denial.. C.Well if its neither then Bravo! Keep it up! Do let me know how you did it.. provided you still think so after reading this blog and you take up the above MCQ and still choose option C :)
Changes that are obvious:
1. You are suddenly VERY busy: In my case I suddenly seem to be super duper busy! I was working pre-marriage, I am working post-marriage. I had the same chores at home pre-marriage and post-marriage. But somehow I feel like the days have gotten shorter.. I mean whats with that??? Anyone else agrees with this??
2. Your master ability of keeping in continuous touch with your friends is lost: This is something I genuinely feel bad about and my husband keeps having to hear me cribbing about it.. His logical follow up statement is: So call them or meet up with them.. But I somehow seem to be in continuous touch with only one freind aka the husband! the others its always a missed call returned and messages replied.. Thank god for watsapp though! If it werent for that I would officially be out of touch! This can ofcourse even be detected in your facebook wall.. jus see the frequency of posts pre marriage and post and you ll know what i m talking about!
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| oh how did i forget this significant factor :P |
3. You actually act your age (well.. atleast sometimes): Agreed there have been a number of events where my tantrums may seem like my husbands committed a legal folly by marrying a Minor but from what I hear thats a part of any healthy marriage: or so I believe to make myself feel better. But I do have to applaud myself at how well I behaved in quite a few instances. Kavi sabaash sabaash :P
4. You genuinely care about the other person in your life: I am not talking about the ohh he s so cute he s so hot kind of care. I actually mean the mature affection and care (Is it me talking!!) but it is true. Marriage is very fascinating that way, its a silent promise that gives you confidence and help you become a better person with the support of your better half. Touch wood. Marriage does make you less selfish. Thats a sure thing.
If you have not agreed with any of the above and your option is still C. Then please read on:
5. You are definitely given more bhav in family functions and get togethers :P You have got to agree with this!!!
6. You definitely put on weight.. I hope everyone agrees with this.. I most definitely dont want to be the only one in this section.. sighhhhhh
7.You have the right to clearly tell what gift you want and when you want it :p
8.You do care about the prices going up!!
These are just a few pointers.. If someone still goes with option C I will consider it my duty to add on to this blog.. But If your still going for option C I would suggest you consider option B :)
But whatever be the pre-marriage and post-marriage parameters, one thing is for sure despite all the ups and downs you have to agree no matter if you are newly wed or not.. having that person to count on is a definite boost in any situation.. Happy married life people :) take care!! hoping to keep blogging now.. but alas my track record does not support my promises to myself..
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